In documenting this decolonial journey I’ve written about Quakers’ use of questions or queries as a spiritual practice. I thought we would need to modify our current queries to bring more attention to the colonial systems we have been living under.
Incommensurable
During this journey I found the use of the term incommensurable to be a crucial concept. Incommensurable means completely incompatible, or mutually exclusive. In the case of colonialization, our current, interlocking systems of Christian colonial capitalist violence are incommensurable with the decolonial repair mechanisms of LANDBACK, Mutual Aid and Abolition of police and prisons.

Settler Futurity
It became clear that many of our queries make assumptions about the legitimacy and ongoing presence of our current systems of Christian colonial capitalist violence. I recently wrote about settler futurity, which is the idea that settler colonialism isn’t just about taking land, but also about controlling the very idea of the future. It’s a way of thinking that presents the settler society as the only possible future—as a permanent and natural reality. A useful concept to push back against as part of our decolonizing work.
Decolonial Witness
| IYM(C) Testimony | Traditional Expression | Proposed Decolonial Witness |
|---|---|---|
| Integrity | Truthfulness, plain speech | LANDBACK: Material restitution for stolen land and complicity in cultural genocide. |
| Equality & Community | Mutual care, recognition of “that of God” in all | Mutual Aid: Horizontal solidarity that dismantles charity hierarchies and builds beloved community. |
| Peace | Refusal of military service, nonviolence | Abolition: Dismantling the systemic violence of the carceral state (police and prisons). |
Decolonial Queries
What is needed is a complete spiritual reorientation to systems of decolonial justice, i.e. LANDBACK, Mutual Aid, and Abolition. We need to work on advices and queries related to:
- Centering Indigenous Voices
- Truth and Historical Complicity
- LANDBACK and the Testimony of Integrity
- Mutual Aid and the Testimony of Equality
- Abolition and the Peace Testimony
- Systemic blowback in our communities
- Non-collaboration with the State
- ReMatriation and Spiritual Balance
- Incommensurability and the Limits of Reconciliation
- Settler-Native-Slave Triad
- Letting Our Decolonized Lives Speak











(C)2025 Jeff Kisling
